When You Miss Someone – A Blessing Rita

This simple Beja Rita (Blessing Rita) is perfect if you miss someone, and can’t tell them. Perhaps you know someone, miss someone or love someone who is experiencing hard times.

Light a candle and some incense. Declare out loud that the smoke from the incense carries your intentions into the universe and extends to all beings until it reaches the person you are dedicating the Beja Rita to.

Declare that this Beja Rita is to send loving-kindness and blessings to your intended.

Focus on the flame of the candle, slowly and deeply breathing in and out until you are relaxed.

Then, close your eyes and visualize your intended. Visualize them in any setting you wish, what is important is that you visualize your intended experiencing loving-kindness, being well, happy and peaceful. Visualize them in pure peace and happiness, free of worry and free of trouble. See the smile on their face as they exist in this perfect condition and perfect state of body, mind and spirit.

Tell the universe about your intended, describe them to the universe, to sayari, kojma or anyone else that you wish. Or you could talk directly to the intended. This is great if you have a picture of them.

Talk about fun things you have done together, positive and happy memories of them. Talk about how you miss them and how much you love them.

Then say the following prayer:

As great as the distance between us
As great as the obstacles you face,
that great and multiplied by one thousand is the love that I give to you.

Your Great Mother Sayari loves you,
your family loves you,
I love you.

When the sun rises on your day so does your peace,
when the sun rises on your day so does your love.

As the sun sets and the light fades so does your troubles,
as the sun sets and the light fades so does your suffering.

And each day you wake is a new chance at life,
you are blessed
you are loved
I send you my blessings and my love…

You have success at what you do
You have no fear you have only comfort
You do not worry for you know that the sun always sets and rises

As great as the distance between us
As great as the obstacles you face,
that great and multiplied by one thousand are the blessing that I give to you.